More than fifty percent of all marriages end in divorce. Do you know why? Because people compromise on their expectations from a relationship. Compromised relationshipand and understanding are important signs of a soulmate connection . Do you feel like you are in a relationship which doesn’t quite feel right? Do you wish you could be happier than you are now? Even if you do, chances are that you are too afraid to walk away from what you have.
A number of relationships begin this way. The two people in question are too scared to let go, thinking that something might never come along again. In order to avoid this, they “settle”. Here are few signs that should guide you if you are in a compromised relationship:
1. You constantly question yourself about being in the relationship. You feel the need to talk to others about your relationship problems. This indicates that you are unsure about the rightness of the relationship.
2. You yearn for true love. You wish you could feel genuine love for the other person, but you can’t
3. You tell yourself constantly that you are lucky to have found someone to love you, and that you should be satisfied with what you have.
4. You meet someone interesting and want to go out with her, but feel guilty about it.
Be on the look-out for such signs. If they happen to you, perhaps it is time for some serious introspection. If not for yourself, you owe it to the other person with whom you are “settling”.
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